I'm Gordon, a man on a mission to navigate the wild, ever-shifting landscape of modern humanity. I’m not here to follow outdated scripts or chase hollow victories. My journey is about becoming a more authentic, connected version of myself—and winning at this complex, exhilarating game called LIFE.
Through my writing, I dive deep into what it means to be a man today. I explore masculinity, the impact of AI, the raw realities of addiction and recovery, the transformative power of travel, and the sparks of inspiration that set my heart ablaze. My books—The Connection Effect: An Entrepreneur’s Playbook to Unlocking the Present Moment and Eluding Reality: A Memoir About Drugs, Psych Wards, & Recovery—are my way of sharing the lessons, scars, and triumphs from my path. I’m currently pouring my soul into a new spy novel, blending grit and intrigue with the human truths I’ve uncovered along the way.
This blog is my open invitation to you. It’s a space where I wrestle with big questions, share unfiltered insights, and reflect on how to live with purpose and presence in a world that’s constantly pulling us elsewhere. Whether you’re here to rethink masculinity, explore the edges of technology, or find inspiration in the messy beauty of the human experience, I’m glad you’re along for the ride.
Let’s connect. Reach out at GordonBufton@proton.me or follow me on Instagram @GordonBufton33. Join me as we redefine what it means to win at LIFE.
Why This Blog Exists
Life isn’t about stacking up trophies or ticking boxes—it’s about peeling back the layers to find who you really are. I’ve been through the highs of entrepreneurship, the lows of addiction, and the wild detours of psych wards and global adventures. Each step has taught me that true success isn’t about dominating others; it’s about mastering yourself and forging real connections with the world around you.
Here, I write about the things that matter:
Masculinity: Redefining what it means to be a man in a world that’s evolving faster than ever. AI & Technology: How the tools shaping our future can deepen—or disrupt—our human connections. Addiction & Recovery: The raw, redemptive journey from rock bottom to resilience. Travel: How new horizons break open our perspectives and reconnect us to humanity. Life’s Big Questions: The ideas, moments, and truths that inspire me to keep growing.
This isn’t just my story—it’s a conversation. I’m here to share what I’ve learned, question what I don’t yet understand, and invite you to join me in chasing a more authentic, connected life.
Featured Posts The Connection Effect: How to unlock the power of the present moment in a distracted world. Escaping Eluding Reality: Lessons from my memoir on addiction, recovery, and finding purpose. The New Masculinity: Why strength today is about vulnerability, empathy, and connection. AI and the Human Heart: Can technology bring us closer together, or is it pulling us apart? Wanderlust Wounds: How travel has reshaped my soul and my understanding of the world.
Let’s Stay Connected
I’m not just writing to hear myself talk—I want to hear from you. Drop me a line at GordonBufton@proton.me or slide into my DMs on Instagram @GordonBufton33. Share your thoughts, your struggles, your wins. Let’s figure out this game called LIFE together.
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