Level Up Your Life, One Day at a Time
Level Up Your Life, One Day at a Time
What's on our minds today? Truthfully, it's about impact. It's about that nagging feeling that we can be doing more, being more. It's about locking in, focusing, and creating something that ripples outwards. Maybe these words land on someone scrolling through their phone at a low point, a flicker of hope igniting within them. Maybe it sparks an idea for that business you've been dreaming about, or nudges you to finally book that therapy appointment. Perhaps it's just the reminder to lace up your shoes and get outside.
That's the crazy part about being a creator, isn't it? You throw these words, these ideas, out into the void, and you have no idea where they'll land or what they'll stir within someone else. But you do know it impacts at least one person: you. The act of sitting down, of wrestling your thoughts onto the page, that's a transformation in itself. For too long, these thoughts have stayed locked away, shared only in the occasional book. Publishing feels different.
My mind keeps circling back to the conversations with Nick. Fifteen years. Weekly. That's a serious commitment. He's my sounding board, my challenger, my brother in arms. We push each other, call each other out, and celebrate the wins. We've definitely pissed each other off along the way, but that raw honesty is what allows us to see our blind spots. This relationship, this consistent connection, it's been transformative for both of us. And I can't help but think that sharing that dynamic, that unfiltered male friendship, could be incredibly valuable for other guys navigating their own lives.
Isn't that the core of it all? To help others? Beyond the hustle, beyond the financial gains, what truly matters is the impact we have on the people around us. Some of my proudest moments aren't tied to achievements or accolades, but to those times I've been able to help someone else achieve something they've longed for.
We all have that power within our own communities. It doesn't require grand gestures. It's the simple acknowledgement of another human being – a genuine compliment to the barista, a brief conversation with the grocery clerk. These small moments of connection can have a far greater impact than we realize. Making someone feel seen, even for a few seconds, can shift their entire day.
What if Nick and I consciously set the intention that our conversations, our podcast, our creations, are aimed at inspiring and lifting others? What becomes possible then? Committing to a decade of this work, playing the long game, knowing that consistency and dedication will eventually lead to something meaningful. It's about embracing the journey, the process of creation, with love and a belief in its potential to transform.
Life isn't a sprint; it's a marathon. We're wired for instant gratification, but true success, true impact, often comes to those who can cultivate patience. It's about leaning into new ways of being, of creating, without being discouraged by initial lack of response. The likes and views are fleeting. The real reward lies in the work itself, in the act of creation, even when no one is watching.
I remember those years speaking in schools. Over a hundred schools in a couple of years. That feeling of standing in front of an auditorium full of students, captivating their attention, sharing a story that resonated – there's nothing quite like it. My motivation was simple: if someone had shared their experiences with addiction in my high school, maybe I would have made different choices. I was naive, thought addiction was something that only happened in movies and "bad" neighborhoods.
How wrong I was. The opioid crisis, the rise in addiction across all demographics – it's a stark reminder that this is a universal struggle. Addiction doesn't discriminate based on social class or zip code. The story of my dear friend Lyle, the millionaire rehab owner who succumbed to meth, is a brutal testament to that. At least he's at peace now. It's easy to have a narrow view of addiction. We might picture the stereotypical image, but the reality is far more nuanced. A significant percentage of addiction occurs in middle-aged stay-at-home mothers, often hidden behind a facade of normalcy. Alcohol, prescription drugs – these can become crutches, unhealthy coping mechanisms.
This is a topic close to my heart. Addiction and mental health are intertwined, and it's a conversation we need to have openly and honestly. Because in some form, we're all battling something. It might be technology, food, the constant dopamine hits of the digital world. We're all susceptible to vices that no longer serve us.
These temptations will always be there – the alluring image on social media, the oversized portion on our plate. Change requires willpower, commitment, and often, accountability. We all possess the power to change, but having someone on that journey with you can make all the difference.
My friend Tommy and I just hit 100 days of our push-up challenge. At least 100 push-ups every single day. We check in on each other. He's been slacking a bit lately, but the consistency remains. We both know that without that mutual accountability, we would have likely given up weeks ago. Life is meant to be lived in connection with others. We have the power to lift each other up, rather than tearing each other down in the often-toxic landscape of the internet.
Today is an opportunity. An opportunity to be a little better than we were yesterday. An opportunity to love a little more. Today can be the day you finally take that first step towards a change you've been putting off. We know what needs to be done to move towards our goals. We know we can choose a different path today. We might stumble, but that's part of the process. The key is to hold onto the belief that change is possible, that we are capable of growth, of love, of being truly present in our lives.
Let's commit to getting just a little bit better today. One small step at a time.
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